For as long as we know, man was the one who needed to provide for his family.
Thousands of years ago men used to go hunting for days and sometimes for weeks so they can bring food on the table for their families. Women had to stay home and take care of the house and children.
Many sons and daughters had to grow without having a father around. This was accepted and understood by everyone because their father had to sacrifice the time spent with his family so he can make sure they had a place to sleep and what to eat.
Countless times in history, men had to go to war not knowing if they’re coming back to their families or not.
Many things have changed since those days while a few remained almost the same. Being a husband and a father comes with some responsibilities and it’s not because we learned it in school or anyone told us to do it.
This is something that’s deeply engraved in our DNA, we as men are programed to protect our families and to provide for them.
Can you be successful and a good father at the same time?
Managing how many hours to spend working and how much time to stay with your family is not always an easy job. Many successful people failed to be good fathers because they spent most of their time working, probably thinking their children will have everything they need so they should live a happy life even if they don’t see their fathers too often.
The role of the father in a child’s life is very important and cannot be replaced by absolutely anyone else. How we are raised and what our parents teach us, stays with us our whole life and influences the way we see the world and how we interact with other people.
Not to mention the fact that children are much more happier when their parent acknowledges, play games and spends enough time with them. It’s know that kids look up to their dads, they try to copy everything they do and want to be like them. The important teachings and life lessons received from your father will stay with you forever and will guide your way through life.
Time passes so fast and we don’t even feel it until it’s too late. We are always under the false impression that we have time. “I will start from tomorrow”, “next week” or “next month” we usually say, forgetting to live more in the present and enjoy what we have now.
It’s not always an easy task to balance the time spent working and how much to stay with your child. Many get caught up with their work and things like wanting to be the best, trying to achieve different goals or having too many projects to work on, take their full attention and they start to spend less and less time with their families.
The important thing here is to never negotiate or lessen the time you spend with your child.
Wake up earlier, take shorter showers if you must, do everything you can to save more time for work and your projects without giving up any precious moments with your loved ones.
To give a quick answer to the question: Can you be successful and a good father at the same time?
The short answer is yes, you just need to put your child first and always make time for him, it’s that simple.
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